How to Coach Booking Conversations Without Making Staff Feel Criticized
Short answer: Coach booking conversations by observing a real or recorded conversation, starting with what went well, asking the staff member what they'd change, practising one scenario together, and agreeing one specific action. Focus on the process and the patient's experience, not personality, and keep coaching regular and private.
Key takeaways
- Observe before you coach.
- Start with what went well.
- Practise one scenario together.
- Agree one action and follow up.
Why does coaching often feel like criticism?
When feedback only happens after a problem, comes in public or focuses on the person rather than the conversation, staff become defensive. They may avoid difficult calls rather than improve.
Regular, private, specific coaching builds confidence instead.
How should a coaching session run?
- Observe: listen to a call or read a message thread
- Coaching conversation: what went well, what they'd change, one suggestion
- Practice scenario: role-play the moment that was hard
- Action: one specific behaviour to try
- Follow-up: review in a week
Avoid comparing staff with each other or coaching during busy periods.
How does the booking conversation coaching sheet help?
The coaching sheet covers observation, the coaching conversation, a practice scenario, an action and things to avoid.
Resource 086 is organized into these sections:
- Observe
- Coaching conversation
- Practice scenario
- Action
- Avoid
Download Resource 086: Booking conversation coaching sheet →
Frequently asked questions
How often should staff be coached?
Short sessions every two to four weeks work well.
Can we record calls for coaching?
Only with appropriate consent and in line with privacy rules.
Who should coach?
The manager or an experienced team member trained in coaching.
What should you do next?
Download the free booking conversation coaching sheet and complete it with your team this week.
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